Every now and then I come across situations which are uncomfortable and difficult to deal with and forces me to question myself. Rather than sit in denial, I have been trying to own up to my actions and look into ways to learn and improve in hopes to make me more in control and comfortable with how I have reacted.

I call these findings ‘gems’ that come up to help put things in perspective and make it possible to taking a practical  & tangible approach to dealing with life.

Today’s gem is this youtube clip about how to be less nice. Doesn’t get any clearer than that in terms of titles and search pairings. This has always been a struggle for me and I believe has hindered my ability to achieving what I really want out of life. It affects my physical, emotional and judgement of any future human encounters. Listening to this however, is a step in the direction I want to be in and I hope it helps with anyone else living in the fairyland unrealistic world of niceness out of the fear of being disliked.

Onwards and upwards….